When do you know it's right?

If you were born a girl, or became one later on in life, you've been warned once or twice about the famous gut feeling, the one you can't control, can't quite grasp but can't get rid of.

So, thank you for the sixth sense, but what exactly are we supposed to do with it?

They tell us to follow it, not ignore it, trust it.

What if my gut feeling is as confused as me...? 

And it goes back and forth... 'til I can get a hold of a glass of wine (who am I kidding, the whole bottle)

So which one of those is the gut feeling? How do you know what's right?

You don't, and you just torture yourself to the point of complete numbness.

I guess it's just a bad combination of insecurity, hormones and this crazy need that us, women, have to know what's going to happen in advance. So we can get ready for the worst.

Good luck to all of us...

Background check

Growing up as a 90's kid, with dad cheating on mom, it was hard to believe love was around the corner. Even though, deep down, I was hoping to meet someone and fall in love, my real plan was to focus on my career and nothing else.

Be an Independent Woman.

I still dated, fell for a couple guys, got my heartbroken, you know, the whole shebang.

And then he came. In my bed first, then into my life. Or was it the other way around?

Point is, I am now in a serious, committed relationship.

And this is the story of the roller coaster I embarked on a year and a half ago.

Or in other words, my attempt at a Carrie Bradshaw therapy. Shrinks are too darn expensive these days.